He's not facing criminal charges for fathering kids and it's definitely NOT for adultery! He's facing possible criminal charges for "hacking" his wife's email account. Please read these two threads in their entirety before you make up false accusations and rumors! Pgdaddy has been through the ringer and now he's contemplating a move back to Taiwan which could result in dire consequences. Let's do our best to lend him a hand.
How is my son going to be, growing up in Taiwan without me?
Need help locating my son, Leo Wang
Here's the first post of the original thread.
pgdaddy on October 21, 2009 wrote:
I need a little advice from fellow Forumosans who have mixed-race children growing up in Taiwan.
I am a foreign father of a three year boy. His mother is Taiwanese, and despite the fact that she has only let me see him once in the last 14 months (in her lawyer's office for three hours), used gangsters to snatch him from me, and has denied me any communication with him at all, the court has done absolutely nothing to oblige her to let me see him (despite my lawyers obtaining a provisional court order). The court has indicated that she will get custody despite of all that she has done and that it is clear she will never let me see him again. My lawyers tell me that we can apply for custody to be changed or that the court will "hopefully" enforce my final visitation rights, but from my experience with the Taiwanese courts so far I don't have any faith in this happening.
She has also filed charges with the police against me for "crimes" such as going into her e-mail once (which I did to try to check on my son's location after she snatched him), which unbelievably has actually got to court. She is obviously trying to get me a criminal record, imprisoned or forced out of the country. It is difficult to avoid the conclusion that the whole system is prejudiced against me, because I am a foreigner. Yes, I have heard stories about " the foreigner father who won custody of the child" and have met one such father in person, but they are the lucky minority. I have also used several lawyers here with no success, and at considerable expense .
I am living outside Taiwan now, and will only come back to see my son. I have been through the most unimaginable hell but need to come to terms with the fact that I may have to let go, to accept the fact that I will not see my son for many years, until he comes to find me later. He was always a Daddy's boy and it hurts so much. But I could let go if I knew he was happy. I worry so much how it will be for him in school, where he may be the only mixed race or foreign child. I know the Taiwanese love to point out those who are different and make it very clear to them that they are different, but also that they like to idolise mixed-race children, albeit superficially.
I am worried that my boy will be sad and confused, particularly because his mother will lie and tell him that his Daddy "doesn't love him anymore" and has "run away".
If any other people have some words of hope to offer about how my little boy may grow up here , it would give me some comfort.