THE MOAMAN FILES

Re: THE MOAMAN FILES

Postby MAOMAN » Sat Jun 15, 2013 7:34 pm

DIVEA wrote:Why does Anthony bother posting on any sites except his own ???
PERSONA NON GRATA.


I spent too many years helping to build Taiwanmosa up to not care about what it has become. I'm going to hold it to the same standards that it used to have.

With every post, with every utterance, we get a chance to present the best version of ourselves that exists. I assume that my daughter will be computer literate within ten years, if not earlier. She'll be almost 17 then. I can still see my posts on Taiwanosa from well over a decade ago, so it seems safe to assume that she will be able to see how I have represented myself online, although I hope there are more interesting things for her to do on the Internet! Anyway, I try to post with that in mind. I'll be accountable for my words and actions. How others represent themselves is a reflection on them, not me.

my feelings are not hurt. It's only the Internet, and I'm already sufficiently calloused-up. I can take it. And of course Taiwanosa can post on forumease. After I left, there were only a couple of Happy Hours before they were discontinued, but they were both posted here and here, with nary a word of snark from anyone in the forumease community. In fact, I believe some forumease moderators who weren't even posting on Taiwanosa went to at least one of those Happy Hours. And Iron Oxide Lady, who posted one of the above events while still a moderator on forumease, used to have "Taiwanosa, the best damn forums on the Internet" as her forumease signature line. She called me out in it, and I responded to her in the Moderator Forums:
By the way, my real name is Tony. Next time you see me call me by that name.

You can also just PM me or call me at 0935-560-995.

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Re: THE MOAMAN FILES

Postby MAOMAN » Sat Jun 15, 2013 7:36 pm

THE TEDDY BEAR wrote:Jimi are you being deliberately obtuse? This is a rival site promoting itself on not just its direct competitor, but the site that it left to take on as a competitor. OK I take Anthony's point that he is promoting services not offered by the flob but still its not surprising some have seen it as taking a bit of a liberty.

Pull ya neck in mate.


I understand your point, but Taiwanmosa wasn't always this suspicious. For many years, we had a direct link to TaiwanHo on our index page, at a time when TaiwanHo's ONLY offering was forums. BTW, Malc, the owner at TaiwanHo, was also involved with taiwanmosa during the time we published forumease Magazine. Why did we do this? We did it because Malc was a good guy, and because he shared the same community vision with Gus and I. It didn't matter to us that he was also offering Taiwan-based discussion forums. We were confident enough that we were doing the right thing that we didn't have to worry about competition.

Anyway, I'm not asking Gus for the same kind of direct link to moronease that we used to have to the forums at TaiwanHo, and I'm not interested in promoting our forums here. Taiwanosa already has forums, so for me, it's not a priority.

After 2011, a lot of things changed at Taiwanosa. Real life activities stopped. Entrepreneur meets stopped. We used to do things like KTV nights, games days, happy hours, Easter Brunches, camping trips. Those aren't easy things to monetize, and I never tried to. We did them because they were FUN. Saturday's Happy Hour at Carnegie's was also a lot of fun. We packed the house, and I got just drunk enough to have a really good time without paying the price of a hangover in the morning. We've got moronease Beach Day in ten days, and it's going to be great! We've got a lot of people coming out for it, there's no cost, and it's a beautiful beach. If it's something anyone here is interested in, you're more than welcome to join us!
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Re: THE MOAMAN FILES

Postby GOOSE STEP » Sat Jun 15, 2013 7:41 pm

Let me try to clear some things up here, too

I believe the reason why some of the moderators find Maoman's posts promoting Taiwanease on Forumosa so annoying is because they are privy to the way Anthony left Forumosa to relaunch Taiwanease. It wasn't pretty or smooth and it wasn't cool. In fact, for me, it was unnecessary, because Taiwanease was always envisioned as a complement to Forumosa -- including the Directory project and the iPhone App that immediately pre-dated Anthony's departure from Forumosa. This is why it's a shame.

Where it gets awkward is that it was not enough for Anthony to simply leave to build the app and the directory. He had to have forums then, too. Which had to have the same topics! And he wanted the same moderators. Then, when it seemed that some moderators were content being moderators on both forums, he insisted that they make a choice.

As I said, I never thought ANY of that was necessary. It didn't shock me that he would want to have forums on Taiwanease, but it was disappointing that he couldn't see the forums on Forumosa as a worthy partner (back then). I did not expect him to insist on there being the same topics -- that's kinda weird -- but I was more interested in moving forward and figuring out who would take care of Forumosa from that point, so I wanted to avoid a protracted break-up negotiation (unfortunately, those talks dragged out for about month -- which I recently reminded him was a waste of time from my point of view), this is why there are copies of some Forumosa threads up to September 2011 on Taiwanease.

But it's how Anthony dealt with the moderators which was really interesting to watch, because, remember, he originally personally invited many (probably most) of them to help out over the years. I had not met most of them - I had already been living in Shanghai for 6 years at that point, so I wasn't even in the country when many joined the moderator team. But we approached these people differently when he and I agreed to go separate ways.

For me, the first step after the break up was clear - assure everyone that Forumosa was not coming to an end, ask for suggestions on what to do next since a dominant and highly visible forum admin was leaving, and check if they were going to stop moderating on Forumosa. I also had a few ideas on how to fill the gaps Anthony left behind. Anthony did A LOT here: he personally hosted the Happy Hours and all those events -- these were really *his* thing, being the guy upfront welcoming everybody to the island; as well as banning people: being where the buck stops (it was great that Anthony always seemed to relish that role). I had no intention to fill those shoes - not because I didn't want to (and, for the record, I did NOT want to), but because I had committed myself to other things unrelated to Forumosa.

I counted myself lucky that all but 3 moderators said they would keep moderating on Forumosa. One of the 3 said he was resigning out of loyalty to Anthony (I didn't challenge him, but I sincerely thought that was silly because, well, Taiwanease was supposed to be an App not a major rival, right? Ha!) and the other 2 said they had been wanting to stop moderating for a long time but didn't know how to break it to Anthony. It was during the one-on-one calls and appointments I made with each moderator that I discovered that they had been approached to moderate on Taiwanease. What else could I say but, "that's cool with me"? I mean, hey, they are great people who've been volunteering all this time -- am I in any position to make demands of them? I figured I should only be grateful for ANY time and attention they could give to Forumosa.

That was the first backlash that seemed to happen. People seemed to regard the invitation as under-handed. Some told me that they thought it was weird to be invited to moderate in a forum that seemed to be intended to "replace" Forumosa. I would simply say, "I don't know anything about that, but I do know that Forumosa needs you - it really needs moderators". Most would simply explain, "Anthony's a good guy, and I don't expect there to be a lot to do there… at least for now" as a way of downplaying why they would be involved with both sites. No arguments from me.

The second backlash happened the following summer, almost a year later. By then, maybe half of the moderators on both Forumosa and Taiwanease were "Dual Mods". Both sites have private moderator forums, so occasionally, there seemed to be some parallel chatter on both sites. And God forbid someone brings up Anthony's name in Forumosa's private areas (ironically and invariably related to him posting on Forumosa in the first place -- I did a topic search last week of the number of times "author = Maoman" and "Taiwanease" appear on Forumosa since Aug 2011, and counted 41 topics; there may have been 2 Forumosa events posted on Taiwanease, but this is like 2 Taiwanease promotional threads on Forumosa every month since), because then there's hair-pulling and soul-searching about the gossiping and how "he's not here to defend himself" sort of things. You want to talk about topics that sound like they came out of high school detention? Read those. Then I heard that Anthony was contemplating asking moderators to choose sides, I mean, sites. That was awesome! I thought 2 things at the same time: on one hand, this would put an end to those endless finger-pointing discussions in the moderator forum; and on the other hand, what a spectacularly offensive way to insult grown women and men! I was glad I never thought of that - even though I recognise why Anthony would be concerned enough to think about it.

So if a moderator today rolls their eyes whenever they see Anthony or anyone promoting Taiwanease on Forumosa, I can't be surprised. For you Jeremy Lin fans, remember when another "king" decided to take his talents to South Beach a couple years ago? It's a little like that kind of resentment. TaiwanHo, CAPT, ORIENTED, and even Internations were not founded to look or act like Forumosa the way the forums at Taiwanease were founded or organised. Seriously - I actually have a piece of paper that literally says it's OK for Taiwanease to look like Forumosa! And though that wasn't my idea, I agreed to sign it. I figured Forumosa will continue to evolve anyway, so no big deal.


Now, by the time of the 2nd backlash, some longtime heavy using Forumosans had either left, been banned (which is something of an accomplishment since we 99.9% of the time we only ban spammers), or simply moved away from Taiwan. The banter culture began to give way to new posters who ask questions and give answers. To me, this is evidence of evolution. This is how I understand the drop in average page views per user and visit duration times accompanied by the record levels of new and overall visitor traffic that resumed by CNY 2012. I agree with some who have pointed out that some of those who left Forumosa for Taiwanease seem like they indeed had been discouraging people from participating in discussions all these years. It was an in-club of posters above the rules after all. And I believe some of them are actually back here smurfing (and that's O-K with me!). Well, at least, this is wishful thinking.


I will confess to you that Forumosa has been less of a priority for me. Those who know me personally know what I'm talking about -- and don't begrudge me for it. But maybe the biggest reason why Forumosa fell a few rungs in my to-do list is because as of Nov 2011, I stopped paying for it. Or at least, it feels that way. I will always be grateful to engerim for proposing and then executing on the move to the current web server where Forumosa resides, because in one stroke, this website got faster, more stable, and plummeted in cost to a fraction (1/10!) what Anthony and I were paying every month for the previous 10 years. Indeed, that move put Forumosa in the black because the affiliate income from Forumosa Friends alone more than covers the bill.

If you've read this far -- thanks! I wouldn't say that Forumosa is against fun activities. Instead, I believe that Forumosa -- maybe more than ever before -- is returning to its roots about supplementing YOUR life in Taiwan (y'know, like "it's about "U" in Formosa" -- hmmpf, that slogan never works). Forumosa is a heavily trafficked site. It's growing, too. There are a lot of ideas on what Forumosa should do. I want them to happen, but I don't have the time to take the lead on them. I am interested in hearing ways to make Forumosa more accessible and easier to use - so please PM me, I would like to hear if you are interested in benefiting from this traffic that Forumosa enjoys. If I agree your ideas will help introduce the forums to new people, then I'll support you.

Today, I am deeply grateful to Tempo Gain and Forumosa's moderators who work behind the scenes -- usually quietly -- to keep order when they can. They rock. I think they have been doing a great job without the drama or irony
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Re: THE MOAMAN FILES

Postby IRON OXIDE LADY » Sat Jun 15, 2013 7:42 pm

Not only that (though everything Goose Step has posted is true, and IMO he has showed great restraint in his posts on this topic over the years).

The point is, any organization that is NOT forumosa.com is NOT forumosa.com, and thus does not get any special privileges. It doesn't matter what Organization X chooses to do, or make its policy, or put on its home page, what events it likes to run, what members it has, what its numbers are, or what color underwear its founder wears. It doesn't matter what forumosa "used to do" way back when.

What matters is the rules and policies that are in place now on forumosa.com, the ones that are implemented by who are devoting their time and energies to this site NOW.

One organization = one thread about it, plus appropriate events posts when there is a genuine event to submit. Very simple.

Or, of course, the organization can purchase advertising, like any other organization. I hear it's pretty effective
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Re: THE MOAMAN FILES

Postby HEADHONCHO11 » Sat Jun 15, 2013 7:44 pm

Finally we get to figure out what was going on, kudos to you both for clearing the air so to speak.

I'll put in a few words as a longtime poster with no relationship with any of the mods here.

1. Although Gus was a founder of Forumosa (when it was called something else) it's always been my impression Anthony and the mods are the ones that built this site along with the posters. A bit like the chairman sitting at the side and the the CEO and management running the thing. Frankly I can see why things happened the way they did. No judgement involved here.

2.
The old Forumosa had a nasty edge to it that was both dogged by cliquish behaviour and 'I am the mate of management' attitudes. This wasn't good to start with but seemed to get progressively worse or became more obvious over the last few years. I didn't have any truck with that.

2. Then some posters were deemed beyond the pale like Tommy when all he needed was to be told to rein in the dodgy pics! There were massive double standards going on. We can see that Tommy is still with us and that plenty of people enjoy reading his interesting and honest thread about his life.

3. Taiwanease should be careful not to let the cliquish behaviour develop again, a warning from history if you will.

4. The development of Taiwanease should have happened years ago, now that they have that's good and Anthony and co. do a good job in getting people together in real life. If Forumosa can't do that that's Forumosas problem not Taiwanease. However Forumosa are right to feel a little aggrieved in the way the split happened , even if it was inevitable.

5. Developing an iPhone app and forumss are 'obvious to anyone who is practiced in the art'' as they say in the patent business. Forumosa can do one anytime. So go do it.

6. I enjoy posting on both sites. Keep it up, move on, and do what each site does best.

7. Personally I think new user or active user count was always highly exaggerated. A lot of people roll by for an answer and shoot off. I don't agree with that behavior. I think everybody needs to make a contribution somehow. That's my two cents on the matter.
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Re: THE MOAMAN FILES

Postby POP MY FLY » Sat Jun 15, 2013 7:46 pm

No real time and less inclination to respond but for the sake of clarity, I am not the DBD for this site (just trying to sell ads) nor do I owe the OP anything. And while I am thrilled beyond words that he liked my public poetic candor, that was actually supposed to be a PM

But here it is again in case you missed it.

He runs around town
Putting us down
The dude's a clown
With a nose of brown.
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Re: THE MOAMAN FILES

Postby DIVEA DIVYA NARANG » Sat Jun 15, 2013 7:47 pm

Gus, you re seriously concerned about mods leaving wen you say that Forumosa is not even your priority? Did you for once consider that this whole super mod and ban stick thing was the reason most mods left. I know when you talked to me, I just exited. No way no.

And I was right, this place has deteriorated due to careless modding. Smurfs, trolls, and more smurfs. TG does a good job but he can't be omnipresent. A lot of mods don't lift a finger because they call it their laissez faire style. It's pretty lazy fare to me.

SO what if Anthony asked the mods to take sides???? They were grown men, no?? Not children. A lot of mods took their sweet time in deciding. Some stayed for really long. But really as big as a jerk Maoman is , they chose him over you. Although TEASE was struggling and not showing that much promise a year after it started and the flob was still thriving but still they left. A bit of introspection wouldn't hurt instead of just justifying your mods are nasty to Anthony because he took other mods with him. In your own words you really don't care about this place and how it is run. One thing that ANthony is good at, is to build a team. You thought offering the ban stick to mods would get you loyalty. I didn't like that kind of power and resigned the minute I heard of those plans, others experimented and left in distaste or disgust.

YOu offer power, he offers friendship. And most TEASE mods, chose the latter. Your mods, here the ones who yell most are forever flexing their muskles.
Iron Oxide Lady, If you're calling me the poodle-on-expresso. Poodles are pretty. Prettier than bull -dog-bitches out for a pound of 'learn Chinese' flesh!!!!
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Re: THE MOAMAN FILES

Postby POP MY FLY » Sat Jun 15, 2013 7:48 pm

divea wrote:
Gus, you re seriously concerned about mods leaving wen you say that Forumosa is not even your priority? Did you for once consider that this whole super mod and ban stick thing was the reason most mods left. I know when you talked to me, I just exited. No way no.

Most mods didn't leave. Most stayed.


And I was right, this place has deteriorated due to careless modding. Smurfs, trolls, and more smurfs. TG does a good job but he can't be omnipresent. A lot of mods don't lift a finger because they call it their laissez faire style. It's pretty lazy fare to me.


Deterioration is in the eye of the beholder. I think it's a damn site (sic) better than the days of the star chamber ( which banned me many times due to me stalking and threatening other forum members, or editing the bottom of my posts promoting the use of illegal drugs ) and the autocratic leadership.

You can't justify your mods being nasty to Maoman. You just shouldn't.

Is Gus your child? No? Then why talk to him like he is?
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Re: THE MOAMAN FILES

Postby IRON OXIDE LADY » Sat Jun 15, 2013 7:49 pm

Divea, your "friendship" with Tony, and his refusal to curb your vitriol, is precisely why I left Taiwanease. The poodle-on-espresso follows-him-everywhere bodyguard-style posting whenever his name is so much as mentioned is once more wearing thin. You may see it the difference between Taiwanease and Forumosa modding as friendship versus power. To me it reads more like used-car-sales in Disneyland versus ordinary human interaction.

Tony swung for the fence and missed. He thought he could gut f.com and replace it. Didn't happen. Let it go. If you enjoy Taiwanease, then that's great. You obviously do not enjoy forumosa. It seems logical to simply enjoy whichever site you like, or both if you enjoy both, but reduce the bitterness in your life by not reading and posting to sites you do not enjoy.

Fifty years from now neither site will exist anyway but moronosa will always be here.
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Re: THE MOAMAN FILES

Postby DIVEA DIVYA NARANG » Sat Jun 15, 2013 7:50 pm

Honey I was here for YEARS before Tease. Okay?? ANd you friggin' stayed. Okay??? I am STILL here. YOu get your business thing flamed and then you have the audacity to get personal with me? Flexing MAD sorry Mod powers?

Point is, I was on the flob, modded here, you didn't leave then. Did you? What vitriol did you see on the tease??? Like I said you're conveniently forgetting your vested interest thingy, do you remember how crazy you went when the split occurred. I was just as surprised as you, but I had nothing to lose so I was cool. I decided to post on BOTH forums. Still bloody do. Introspection won't hurt you. And??? If you're calling me the poodle-on-expresso. Poodles are pretty. Prettier than bull -dog-bitches out for a pound of 'learn Chinese' flesh!!!!
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