LORD LUCAN wrote:I'm not at all surprise at the vitriol heaped by some foreigners upon any foreigner who gets in trouble here. Taiwan has a unique expat community made up of moralising do-gooders who have never set a foot wrong in life on the one hand, and on the other hand, drug-crazed criminal lunatics who run around offending the moral sensibilities of the former.
I certainly hope I am not thought of being in the former group.
Listen, this incident struck home to me for a couple of reasons I mentioned above, firstly, watching/hearing about so many people I know being hurt or killed due to drunk drivers; secondly, my wife and I nearly being killed by one, and thirdly, by my brother's experiences as a full blown alcoholic. The latter is the freshest because since moving back to NY, we have become quite close, something that never would have happened had he been caught a THIRD time for DUI.
I don't want to get into the details, but when it comes to the info I had on the person under scrutiny here, I hold my second hand knowledge as golden. That's how good and reliable my sources are.
I know every word I wrote in this thread and I stand by them, but you know what? I'm over it. I'm over being furious and I'm moving into compassion. I could easily say I don't care what happens to you, Mr X, and that would be essentially true. However, I do care what happens to many of the people here who had your back. And their children, especially the ones who again, from what I have heard, who have grown very very fond on you. The love of another man's children is a huge gift that should not be thrown away so carelessly.
If I judged you, I did it for my own safety and sense of security. I steer clear of drama as much as possible. In my workaday life, I abhor confrontation. I have brothers and sisters and parents who have given me decades of alcohol soaked drama and I hate it. I have/had no place for yours.
I apologize to my friends here, some of whom may be yours, for microcombing through this situation and gnawing through the bones. That's me. I go with my gut and my gut is usually spot on.
I do honestly hope you haven't fucked yourself out of your life.